People Pleaser

I am so fed up of being a 'people pleaser'. You know the one, it's always 'what do you want for dinner' instead of 'I would like for dinner' or what do you want to do tonight' instead of 'I'd like to do'. You get the picture? I don't even know why I do it and if I stopped, I would be breaking a habit of a life time. I don't know if I am insecure or a bloody idiot or both lol. And am I contradicting myself by saying that just for once, I would like someone else to make decisions just to give me a break from it all? Sometimes I feel like I have all the weight of the world on my shoulders and no one to help shift the burden. Guess we all feel like that at times huh?